You say you are a "med grad" - do you mean you've finished me school and are taking time off, or are you in your 3rd year of med school getting ready to apply for residencies this fall (you say you are applying to start in 2005, so I assume you are finishing 3rd year?).
I think a lot of people are undecided at your stage, but most people have been able to rule out a few different fields - which at least helps make the decision look a little less ominous.
I don't have any "professional" advice as I am not an expert in this area. However, I did have to go through that decision making process and I can explain some of my thought processes - most still apply today, but the markets have changed some. The main difference is that I started residency in 1996, which was the peak of interest in primary care fields. My general sense is that this has died down quite a bit, and people are again looking more keenly at specialties and subspecialties.
I was first able to rule out a few different fields based on different factors - I didn't like the topic, I didn't like the patient population, I didn't like the work hours, etc. I reflected on what I like the most during my 3rd year and tried to figure out why I liked different fields. I also talked to a lot of different people about what they expected the job markets to be like in different fields (pretty much all fields actually looked pretty good, so this wound up not being that big of a real factor).
I also looked at a few books on choosing medical specialties, and I'll list some current books that received high reviews at the end of this message.
In many ways, I couldn't decide, which is probably why I chose a combined field. I actually applied and interviewed for both med-psych and peds-psych-child psych programs. I wound up ranking both types of programs on my rank list because I still didn't have a strong preference between the different fields, but just ranked them in order of the programs that I liked the best.
I'd talk to some of the 4th year med students to see how they went about their decisions. When you say you met with "med counselors, what do you mean? Were these people from your med school, or outside consultants? Either way, they are probably much more qualified than I am to be giving you suggestions and advice. The only other suggestion I can offer is for you to mention what your current though process is on this forum and see if people have suggestions to help you narrow your focus. Just remember, advice is just that - you need to make a decision for yourself in the end
Here's a list of some books I found with good reviews:
The Ultimate Guide To Choosing a Medical Specialty
How to Choose a Medical Specialty[ Edited by Admin on 2005/1/30 8:52 ]